It is what it is. You can justify, testify, even modify. However, the truth is, when it's all said and done it is what it is :) Trying to change the perception of a situation does nothing to help the situation and false hope is no hope at all. Truth is, people are human and human beings f*** up from time to time :) You, me, everyone :) Luckily, the 2 leading causes of f***ing up are weakness and stupidity and we all can get stronger and smarter. All we got to do is accept that It is what it is and justifying, testifying and modifying will not do a d*** thing to bring positive change to the results of our actions. Healing starts when excuses stop :) Big Love